A question that leads to conflict...

This is what i read about in the news this morning:

Survey: Majority of Men say no to condom
China Press reported that the majority of men do not like to wear condoms while having sex.
In a survey statistics provided by Universiti Putra Malaysia (UPM) in 2005, only four out of 10 interviewed used condoms.

Now here's the question, to the girls:
Would you like to loose your virginity to a real thing or a rubber bag? (other things are not an option)

Now here's the question, to the guys:
Would you rather seeing your girl loose her virginity and stumble into ecstasy (or whatever... -_-) to you, or to a rubber bag?

My answer:
I want to give her the real thing, but safety precaution says "ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!"
So what shoud i do?
T_T

.... conflict